My Aunt Helen is here from Seattle and with her comes a whirlwind of extremely potent energy. For the good and the bad. Find out how I narrowly avoid a major family fight and end up making some of the most enjoyable memories on Drumlin Farm with Gram and Aunt Helen. [10 UHD Pictures]
Aunt Helen is in town which always feels like an audit. I know she means well, but as my mother and I take care of my grandmother full time she comes in and feels like she has to make up for the lost time. What ends up happening instead is she just causes chaos and gets everyone worked up and then nobody wants to do anything with anyone. I was able to avoid this situation narrowly this time. She made a snide comment about how I bring in money. She tried to tell me because what I do is done online it isn’t real. Okay, lady. I’m not going to take such obvious bait. That doesn’t even make sense. I closed my mouth, walked away, got ready and went off to re-certify with the state’s cannabis program.
I was pleased to see Dr. Julie was still there from last year. She remembered my mother and I. We really liked her so we were happy to see her again. She spent the entire time listening to our concerns and answering our questions about medicine above and beyond cannabis since my primary doctor doesn’t have time for me and my mother’s refused to see her because she was ten minutes late this year. I mean, this visit did cost me $200 so I suppose she can be loose-lipped with the info. Maybe that’s the issue. Maybe if I start walking in and tipping my doctor cash they will strip me naked and give me a real exam. Not that…Wait…Point being I have actual internal problems going on that remain unresolved that doctors won’t look at. Or at least I feel that way. Maybe I just feel severely not listened to? Julie gave us some tips for Fibromyalgia pain to try and even her email address to follow up with her.How v
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Helen will be leaving in the next day or so. Her visits always stir things up in a polarizing way. She brings energy that livens the house. She brings chaos that destabilizes the house. Her go-getting, no-nonsense attitude is useful for getting things done both business and leisure but is tiresome to an introvert who has a limited capacity for social interaction. Seeing her every other month is a good injection of chaos.
We traveled to Drumlin farm, which is an Audubon Society nature reserve. We walked the farm and saw the animals as we do each month.
Once we arrived at the gift shop, Gram approached the bird section and began her search for her new additions to her family. This was what she had been waiting for. The entire trip culminated to this. The birds were stacked neatly on their display petals, one bird per and a big bucket of birds at the bottom to dig through.
After a good twenty minutes of digging and debating, we came down to a choice of three birds. The selections were the robin, the blue grosbeak, and the mallard. Two simple and one rare. A grand total of fifteen birds now reside in this house. No complaints from me. I love birds and I love stuffed toys. Win-win. Helen was extremely generous and bought Gram and my membership to Audobon so now we can enter all year without paying the fee. I expect to make this a much more regular experience for both of us now. I want to become a more outdoors
It’s sure been an adventure! I’m glad that we were able to coax gram into stepping outside of her comfort zone without having a meltdown. I hope that next visit we are able to work together like this again successfully.